diff --git a/.github/workflows/build.yml b/.github/workflows/build.yml
index b3131be4..66c036d7 100644
--- a/.github/workflows/build.yml
+++ b/.github/workflows/build.yml
@@ -15,45 +15,24 @@ jobs:
     strategy:
       fail-fast: false
       matrix:
-        ruby:
-          - 3.1
-          - '3.0'
-          - 2.7
-          - 2.6
-          - 2.5
-          # - jruby-9.2.19.0
-          # - jruby-9.3.1.0
-        rails:
-          - '~> 5.1.0'
-          - '~> 5.2.0'
-          - '~> 6.0.0'
-          - '~> 6.1.0'
-          - '~> 7.0.0'
-          - 'edge'
+        rails: ["edge", "~> 7.2.0", "~> 7.1.0", "~> 7.0.0", "~> 6.1.0"]
+        ruby: ["3.3","3.2", "3.1", "3.0", "2.7"]
         exclude:
-        # Rails edge is now 7.x and requires ruby 2.7
-        - rails: 'edge'
-          ruby: 2.6
-        - rails: 'edge'
-          ruby: 2.5
-        - rails: '~> 7.0.0'
-          ruby: 2.6
-        - rails: '~> 7.0.0'
-          ruby: 2.5
-        # Legacy Rails with newer rubies
-        - rails: '~> 5.1.0'
-          ruby: '3.0'
-        - rails: '~> 5.2.0'
-          ruby: '3.0'
-        - rails: '~> 5.1.0'
-          ruby: 3.1
-        - rails: '~> 5.2.0'
-          ruby: 3.1
+          - rails: "~> 7.2.0"
+            ruby: "3.0"
+          - rails: "~> 7.2.0"
+            ruby: "2.7"
+          - rails: "edge"
+            ruby: "3.0"
+          - rails: "edge"
+            ruby: "2.7"
+
+
 
     env:
       RAILS: ${{ matrix.rails }}
     steps:
-    - uses: actions/checkout@v2
+    - uses: actions/checkout@v4
     - uses: ruby/setup-ruby@v1
       with:
         ruby-version: ${{ matrix.ruby }}
diff --git a/CHANGELOG.md b/CHANGELOG.md
index 33d169db..ffb76447 100644
--- a/CHANGELOG.md
+++ b/CHANGELOG.md
@@ -1,5 +1,44 @@
 # paranoia Changelog
 
+## 3.0.0 - August 13, 2024
+
+_Tagged as 3.0 as Ruby + Rails version constraints have been modernised._
+
+- [#564](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/564) Support Rails edge
+- [#563](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/563) Support Rails 7.2
+
+## 2.6.4 - July 20, 2024
+
+* [#554](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/554) Support prebuilt counter cache association list (#554)
+  [Joé Dupuis](https://github.com/JoeDupuis)
+* [#551](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/551) Fix: restore has_one with scope (#551)
+  [Paweł Charyło](https://github.com/zygzagZ)
+* [#555](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/555) 📝 Add Yard documentation for Paranoia::Query (#555)
+  [Clément Prod'homme](https://github.com/cprodhomme)
+
+## 2.6.3 - Oct 12, 2023
+
+* [#548](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/548) Add support for [Rails 7.1](https://github.com/rails/rails/releases/tag/v7.1.0) (#548)
+  [Indyarocks](https://github.com/indyarocks)
+
+## 2.6.2 - Jun 6, 2023
+
+* [#441](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/441) Recursive restore with has_many/one through assocs (#441)
+  [Emil Ong](https://github.com/emilong)
+
+## 2.6.1 - Nov 16, 2022
+
+* [#535](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/535) Allow to skip updating paranoia_destroy_attributes for records while really_destroy!
+  [Anton Bogdanov](https://github.com/kortirso)
+
+## 2.6.0 - Mar 23, 2022
+
+* [#512](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/512) Quote table names; Mysql 8 has keywords that might match table names which cause an exception.
+* [#476](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/476) Fix syntax error in documentation.
+* [#485](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/485) Rollback transaction if destroy aborted.
+* [#522](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/522) Add failing tests for association with abort on destroy.
+* [#513](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/513) Fix create callback called on destroy.
+
 ## 2.5.3
 
 * [#532](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/pull/532) Fix: correct bug when sentinel_value is not a timestamp
diff --git a/Gemfile b/Gemfile
index fe5f736b..66ecd287 100644
--- a/Gemfile
+++ b/Gemfile
@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ sqlite = ENV['SQLITE_VERSION']
 if sqlite
   gem 'sqlite3', sqlite, platforms: [:ruby]
 else
-  gem 'sqlite3', platforms: [:ruby]
+  gem 'sqlite3', '~> 1.4', platforms: [:ruby]
 end
 
 platforms :jruby do
diff --git a/README.md b/README.md
index cc6746e8..cf898b8f 100644
--- a/README.md
+++ b/README.md
@@ -1,7 +1,7 @@
 [![Gem Version](https://badge.fury.io/rb/paranoia.svg)](https://badge.fury.io/rb/paranoia)
 [![build](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/actions/workflows/build.yml/badge.svg)](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia/actions/workflows/build.yml)
 
-**Notice:** 
+**Notice:**
 
 `paranoia` has some surprising behaviour (like overriding ActiveRecord's `delete` and `destroy`) and is not recommended for new projects. See [`discard`'s README](https://github.com/jhawthorn/discard#why-not-paranoia-or-acts_as_paranoid) for more details.
 
@@ -103,6 +103,14 @@ If you really want it gone *gone*, call `really_destroy!`:
 # => client
 ```
 
+If you need skip updating timestamps for deleting records, call `really_destroy!(update_destroy_attributes: false)`.
+When we call `really_destroy!(update_destroy_attributes: false)` on the parent `client`, then each child `email` will also have `really_destroy!(update_destroy_attributes: false)` called.
+
+``` ruby
+>> client.really_destroy!(update_destroy_attributes: false)
+# => client
+```
+
 If you want to use a column other than `deleted_at`, you can pass it as an option:
 
 ``` ruby
diff --git a/lib/paranoia.rb b/lib/paranoia.rb
index ab89bf9e..f7775b7f 100644
--- a/lib/paranoia.rb
+++ b/lib/paranoia.rb
@@ -24,6 +24,7 @@ def self.included(klazz)
   module Query
     def paranoid? ; true ; end
 
+    # If you want to find all records, even those which are deleted
     def with_deleted
       if ActiveRecord::VERSION::STRING >= "4.1"
         return unscope where: paranoia_column
@@ -31,6 +32,7 @@ def with_deleted
       all.tap { |x| x.default_scoped = false }
     end
 
+    # If you want to find only the deleted records
     def only_deleted
       if paranoia_sentinel_value.nil?
         return with_deleted.where.not(paranoia_column => paranoia_sentinel_value)
@@ -45,6 +47,7 @@ def only_deleted
     end
     alias_method :deleted, :only_deleted
 
+    # If you want to restore a record
     def restore(id_or_ids, opts = {})
       ids = Array(id_or_ids).flatten
       any_object_instead_of_id = ids.any? { |id| ActiveRecord::Base === id }
@@ -100,7 +103,7 @@ def paranoia_update!(attributes)
   def paranoia_destroy
     with_transaction_returning_status do
       result = run_callbacks(:destroy) do
-        @_disable_counter_cache = deleted?
+        @_disable_counter_cache = paranoia_destroyed?
         result = paranoia_delete
         next result unless result && ActiveRecord::VERSION::STRING >= '4.2'
         each_counter_cached_associations do |association|
@@ -113,7 +116,7 @@ def paranoia_destroy
         @_disable_counter_cache = false
         result
       end
-      raise ActiveRecord::Rollback, "Not destroyed" unless self.deleted?
+      raise ActiveRecord::Rollback, "Not destroyed" unless paranoia_destroyed?
       result
     end || false
   end
@@ -184,7 +187,7 @@ def paranoia_destroyed?
   end
   alias :deleted? :paranoia_destroyed?
 
-  def really_destroy!
+  def really_destroy!(update_destroy_attributes: true)
     with_transaction_returning_status do
       run_callbacks(:real_destroy) do
         @_disable_counter_cache = paranoia_destroyed?
@@ -198,12 +201,14 @@ def really_destroy!
             # .paranoid? will work for both instances and classes
             next unless association_data && association_data.paranoid?
             if reflection.collection?
-              next association_data.with_deleted.each(&:really_destroy!)
+              next association_data.with_deleted.find_each { |record|
+                record.really_destroy!(update_destroy_attributes: update_destroy_attributes)
+              }
             end
-            association_data.really_destroy!
+            association_data.really_destroy!(update_destroy_attributes: update_destroy_attributes)
           end
         end
-        update_columns(paranoia_destroy_attributes)
+        update_columns(paranoia_destroy_attributes) if update_destroy_attributes
         destroy_without_paranoia
       end
     end
@@ -211,8 +216,25 @@ def really_destroy!
 
   private
 
+  def counter_cache_disabled?
+    defined?(@_disable_counter_cache) && @_disable_counter_cache
+  end
+
+  def counter_cached_association_names
+    return [] if counter_cache_disabled?
+    super
+  end
+
   def each_counter_cached_associations
-    !(defined?(@_disable_counter_cache) && @_disable_counter_cache) ? super : []
+    return [] if counter_cache_disabled?
+
+    if defined?(super)
+      super
+    else
+      counter_cached_association_names.each do |name|
+        yield association(name)
+      end
+    end
   end
 
   def paranoia_restore_attributes
@@ -231,6 +253,16 @@ def timestamp_attributes_with_current_time
     timestamp_attributes_for_update_in_model.each_with_object({}) { |attr,hash| hash[attr] = current_time_from_proper_timezone }
   end
 
+  def paranoia_find_has_one_target(association)
+    association_foreign_key = association.options[:through].present? ? association.klass.primary_key : association.foreign_key
+    association_find_conditions = { association_foreign_key => self.id }
+    association_find_conditions[association.type] = self.class.name if association.type
+
+    scope = association.klass.only_deleted.where(association_find_conditions)
+    scope = scope.merge(association.scope) if association.scope
+    scope.first
+  end
+
   # restore associated records that have been soft deleted when
   # we called #destroy
   def restore_associated_records(recovery_window_range = nil)
@@ -254,19 +286,8 @@ def restore_associated_records(recovery_window_range = nil)
       end
 
       if association_data.nil? && association.macro.to_s == "has_one"
-        association_class_name = association.klass.name
-        association_foreign_key = association.foreign_key
-
-        if association.type
-          association_polymorphic_type = association.type
-          association_find_conditions = { association_polymorphic_type => self.class.name.to_s, association_foreign_key => self.id }
-        else
-          association_find_conditions = { association_foreign_key => self.id }
-        end
-
-        association_class = association_class_name.constantize
-        if association_class.paranoid?
-          association_class.only_deleted.where(association_find_conditions).first
+        if association.klass.paranoid?
+          paranoia_find_has_one_target(association)
             .try!(:restore, recursive: true, :recovery_window_range => recovery_window_range)
         end
       end
diff --git a/lib/paranoia/version.rb b/lib/paranoia/version.rb
index 946e0abb..16735463 100644
--- a/lib/paranoia/version.rb
+++ b/lib/paranoia/version.rb
@@ -1,3 +1,3 @@
 module Paranoia
-  VERSION = '2.5.3'.freeze
+  VERSION = '3.0.0'.freeze
 end
diff --git a/paranoia.gemspec b/paranoia.gemspec
index febe2afc..9baf38e6 100644
--- a/paranoia.gemspec
+++ b/paranoia.gemspec
@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@ Gem::Specification.new do |s|
   s.license     = 'MIT'
   s.summary     = "Paranoia is a re-implementation of acts_as_paranoid for Rails 3, 4, and 5, using much, much, much less code."
   s.description = <<-DSC
-    Paranoia is a re-implementation of acts_as_paranoid for Rails 4, 5, 6, and 7,
+    Paranoia is a re-implementation of acts_as_paranoid for Rails 5, 6, and 7,
     using much, much, much less code. You would use either plugin / gem if you
     wished that when you called destroy on an Active Record object that it
     didn't actually destroy it, but just "hid" the record. Paranoia does this
@@ -22,9 +22,9 @@ Gem::Specification.new do |s|
 
   s.required_rubygems_version = ">= 1.3.6"
 
-  s.required_ruby_version = '>= 2.5'
+  s.required_ruby_version = '>= 2.7'
 
-  s.add_dependency 'activerecord', '>= 5.1', '< 7.1'
+  s.add_dependency 'activerecord', '>= 6', '< 8.1'
 
   s.add_development_dependency "bundler", ">= 1.0.0"
   s.add_development_dependency "rake"
diff --git a/test/paranoia_test.rb b/test/paranoia_test.rb
index f482ffb6..a67be3fe 100644
--- a/test/paranoia_test.rb
+++ b/test/paranoia_test.rb
@@ -3,7 +3,7 @@
 require 'minitest/autorun'
 require 'paranoia'
 
-test_framework = defined?(MiniTest::Test) ? MiniTest::Test : MiniTest::Unit::TestCase
+test_framework = defined?(Minitest::Test) ? Minitest::Test : Minitest::Unit::TestCase
 
 if ActiveRecord::Base.respond_to?(:raise_in_transactional_callbacks=)
   ActiveRecord::Base.raise_in_transactional_callbacks = true
@@ -55,7 +55,12 @@ def setup!
     'active_column_model_with_uniqueness_validations' => 'name VARCHAR(32), deleted_at DATETIME, active BOOLEAN',
     'paranoid_model_with_belongs_to_active_column_model_with_has_many_relationships' => 'name VARCHAR(32), deleted_at DATETIME, active BOOLEAN, active_column_model_with_has_many_relationship_id INTEGER',
     'active_column_model_with_has_many_relationships' => 'name VARCHAR(32), deleted_at DATETIME, active BOOLEAN',
-    'without_default_scope_models' => 'deleted_at DATETIME'
+    'without_default_scope_models' => 'deleted_at DATETIME',
+    'paranoid_has_through_restore_parents' => 'deleted_at DATETIME',
+    'empty_paranoid_models' => 'deleted_at DATETIME',
+    'paranoid_has_one_throughs' => 'paranoid_has_through_restore_parent_id INTEGER NOT NULL, empty_paranoid_model_id INTEGER NOT NULL, deleted_at DATETIME',
+    'paranoid_has_many_throughs' => 'paranoid_has_through_restore_parent_id INTEGER NOT NULL, empty_paranoid_model_id INTEGER NOT NULL, deleted_at DATETIME',
+    'paranoid_has_one_with_scopes' => 'deleted_at DATETIME, kind STRING, paranoid_has_one_with_scope_id INTEGER',
   }.each do |table_name, columns_as_sql_string|
     ActiveRecord::Base.connection.execute "CREATE TABLE #{table_name} (id INTEGER NOT NULL PRIMARY KEY, #{columns_as_sql_string})"
   end
@@ -393,14 +398,22 @@ def test_active_column_model_with_uniqueness_validation_still_works_on_non_delet
   end
 
   def test_sentinel_value_for_custom_sentinel_models
+    time_zero = if ActiveRecord::VERSION::MAJOR < 6
+      Time.new(0)
+    elsif ActiveRecord::VERSION::MAJOR == 6 && ActiveRecord::VERSION::MINOR < 1
+      Time.new(0)
+    else
+      DateTime.new(0)
+    end
+
     model = CustomSentinelModel.new
     assert_equal 0, model.class.count
     model.save!
-    assert_equal DateTime.new(0), model.deleted_at
+    assert_equal time_zero, model.deleted_at
     assert_equal 1, model.class.count
     model.destroy
 
-    assert DateTime.new(0) != model.deleted_at
+    assert time_zero != model.deleted_at
     assert model.paranoia_destroyed?
 
     assert_equal 0, model.class.count
@@ -409,7 +422,7 @@ def test_sentinel_value_for_custom_sentinel_models
     assert_equal 1, model.class.deleted.count
 
     model.restore
-    assert_equal DateTime.new(0), model.deleted_at
+    assert_equal time_zero, model.deleted_at
     assert !model.destroyed?
 
     assert_equal 1, model.class.count
@@ -1148,6 +1161,40 @@ def test_restore_recursive_on_polymorphic_has_one_association
     assert_equal 1, polymorphic.class.count
   end
 
+  def test_recursive_restore_with_has_through_associations
+    parent = ParanoidHasThroughRestoreParent.create
+    one = EmptyParanoidModel.create
+    ParanoidHasOneThrough.create(
+      :paranoid_has_through_restore_parent => parent,
+      :empty_paranoid_model => one,
+    )
+    many = Array.new(3) do
+      many = EmptyParanoidModel.create
+      ParanoidHasManyThrough.create(
+        :paranoid_has_through_restore_parent => parent,
+        :empty_paranoid_model => many,
+      )
+
+      many
+    end
+
+    assert_equal true, parent.empty_paranoid_model.present?
+    assert_equal 3, parent.empty_paranoid_models.count
+
+    parent.destroy
+
+    assert_equal true, parent.empty_paranoid_model.reload.deleted?
+    assert_equal 0, parent.empty_paranoid_models.count
+
+    parent = ParanoidHasThroughRestoreParent.with_deleted.first
+    parent.restore(recursive: true)
+
+    assert_equal false, parent.empty_paranoid_model.deleted?
+    assert_equal one, parent.empty_paranoid_model
+    assert_equal 3, parent.empty_paranoid_models.count
+    assert_equal many, parent.empty_paranoid_models
+  end
+
   # Ensure that we're checking parent_type when restoring
   def test_missing_restore_recursive_on_polymorphic_has_one_association
     parent = ParentModel.create
@@ -1270,6 +1317,37 @@ def test_counter_cache_column_on_restore
     end
   end
 
+  def test_has_one_with_scope_missed
+    parent = ParanoidHasOneWithScope.create
+    gamma = ParanoidHasOneWithScope.create(kind: :gamma, paranoid_has_one_with_scope: parent) # this has to be first
+    alpha = ParanoidHasOneWithScope.create(kind: :alpha, paranoid_has_one_with_scope: parent)
+    beta = ParanoidHasOneWithScope.create(kind: :beta, paranoid_has_one_with_scope: parent)
+
+    parent.destroy
+    assert !gamma.reload.destroyed?
+    gamma.destroy
+    assert_equal 0, ParanoidHasOneWithScope.count # all destroyed
+    parent.reload # we unload associations
+    parent.restore(recursive: true)
+
+    assert_equal "alpha", parent.alpha&.kind, "record was not restored"
+    assert_equal "beta", parent.beta&.kind, "record was not restored"
+    assert_nil parent.gamma, "record was incorrectly restored"
+  end
+
+  def test_has_one_with_scope_not_restored
+    parent = ParanoidHasOneWithScope.create
+    gamma = ParanoidHasOneWithScope.create(kind: :gamma, paranoid_has_one_with_scope: parent)
+    parent.destroy
+    assert_equal 1, ParanoidHasOneWithScope.count # gamma not deleted
+    gamma.destroy
+    parent.reload # we unload associations
+    parent.restore(recursive: true)
+
+    assert gamma.reload.deleted?, "the record was incorrectly restored"
+    assert_equal 1, ParanoidHasOneWithScope.count # gamma deleted
+  end
+
   private
 
   def get_featureful_model
@@ -1725,3 +1803,37 @@ class ParanoidBelongsTo < ActiveRecord::Base
     belongs_to :paranoid_has_one
   end
 end
+
+class ParanoidHasThroughRestoreParent < ActiveRecord::Base
+  acts_as_paranoid
+
+  has_one :paranoid_has_one_through, dependent: :destroy
+  has_one :empty_paranoid_model, through: :paranoid_has_one_through, dependent: :destroy
+
+  has_many :paranoid_has_many_throughs, dependent: :destroy
+  has_many :empty_paranoid_models, through: :paranoid_has_many_throughs, dependent: :destroy
+end
+
+class EmptyParanoidModel < ActiveRecord::Base
+  acts_as_paranoid
+end
+
+class ParanoidHasOneThrough < ActiveRecord::Base
+  acts_as_paranoid
+  belongs_to :paranoid_has_through_restore_parent
+  belongs_to :empty_paranoid_model, dependent: :destroy
+end
+
+class ParanoidHasManyThrough < ActiveRecord::Base
+  acts_as_paranoid
+  belongs_to :paranoid_has_through_restore_parent
+  belongs_to :empty_paranoid_model, dependent: :destroy
+end
+
+class ParanoidHasOneWithScope < ActiveRecord::Base
+  acts_as_paranoid
+  has_one :alpha, -> () { where(kind: :alpha) }, class_name: "ParanoidHasOneWithScope", dependent: :destroy
+  has_one :beta, -> () { where(kind: :beta) }, class_name: "ParanoidHasOneWithScope", dependent: :destroy
+  has_one :gamma, -> () { where(kind: :gamma) }, class_name: "ParanoidHasOneWithScope"
+  belongs_to :paranoid_has_one_with_scope
+end