Fix handling of deprecated CMake options #1300

Job	Run time
windows (windows-latest)	3m 21s
conda (ubuntu-latest)	1m 13s
posix (ubuntu-latest, OFF)	10m 38s
posix (ubuntu-latest, ON)	13m 23s
posix (ubuntu-latest, mpich, OFF)	42m 55s
posix (ubuntu-latest, mpich, ON)	48m 38s
posix (ubuntu-latest, openmpi, OFF)	40m 9s
posix (ubuntu-latest, openmpi, ON)	46m 25s
posix (macos-latest, OFF)	1m 5s
posix (macos-latest, ON)	1m 11s
posix (macos-latest, mpich, OFF)	2m 8s
posix (macos-latest, mpich, ON)	1m 57s
	3h 33m 3s

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