[#6307] feat(flink): remove log4j from Gravitino Flink connector (#6308)

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

remove log4j from Gravitino Flink connector

### Why are the changes needed?

Fix: #6307 

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
no

### How was this patch tested?
setup an local flink cluster, run flink SQL

flink-connector/flink-runtime/build.gradle.kts

@@ -41,6 +41,14 @@ val scalaVersion: String = "2.12"
 val artifactName = "gravitino-${project.name}_$scalaVersion"
 val baseName = "${rootProject.name}-flink-connector-runtime-${flinkMajorVersion}_$scalaVersion"
 
+configurations.all {
+  resolutionStrategy.eachDependency {
+    if (requested.group == "org.apache.logging.log4j") {
+      throw GradleException("Forbidden dependency 'org.apache.logging.log4j' found!")
+    }
+  }
+}
+
 dependencies {
   implementation(project(":clients:client-java-runtime", configuration = "shadow"))
   implementation(project(":flink-connector:flink"))

flink-connector/flink/build.gradle.kts

@@ -41,8 +41,12 @@ val scalaVersion: String = "2.12"
 val artifactName = "${rootProject.name}-flink-${flinkMajorVersion}_$scalaVersion"
 
 dependencies {
-  implementation(project(":core"))
-  implementation(project(":catalogs:catalog-common"))
+  implementation(project(":core")) {
+    exclude("org.apache.logging.log4j")
+  }
+  implementation(project(":catalogs:catalog-common")) {
+    exclude("org.apache.logging.log4j")
+  }
   implementation(libs.guava)
 
   compileOnly(project(":clients:client-java-runtime", configuration = "shadow"))