fix: make timeouterror more compatible with future versions of Python

[bwangelme]

see reason in #2961

starting from python 3.10, this is a deprecated alias to TimeoutError: https://docs.python.org/3.12/library/socket.html#socket.timeout
while TimeoutError also exists in 3.8 (the earliest version of python still supported): https://docs.python.org/3.8/library/exceptions.html#TimeoutError
so I wonder if we should be more future proof and handle both socket.timeout and TimeoutError here, and then we can drop socket.timeout when 3.10 becomes the earliest version of python supported.

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[fishy]

similarly socket.error is also going to be a deprecated alias to OSError so we probably want to do something similar here.