fix

include/grpc/impl/channel_arg_names.h

@@ -106,6 +106,12 @@
  */
 #define GRPC_ARG_HTTP2_MIN_RECV_PING_INTERVAL_WITHOUT_DATA_MS \
   "grpc.http2.min_ping_interval_without_data_ms"
+/** Maximum time to allow a request to be:
+    (1) received by the server, but
+    (2) not requested by a RequestCall (in the completion queue based API)
+    before the request is cancelled */
+#define GRPC_ARG_SERVER_MAX_UNREQUESTED_TIME_IN_SERVER_SECONDS \
+  "grpc.server_max_unrequested_time_in_server"
 /** Channel arg to override the http2 :scheme header */
 #define GRPC_ARG_HTTP2_SCHEME "grpc.http2_scheme"
 /** How many pings can the client send before needing to send a

src/core/lib/surface/server.cc

@@ -829,7 +829,11 @@ RefCountedPtr<channelz::ServerNode> CreateChannelzNode(
 Server::Server(const ChannelArgs& args)
     : channel_args_(args),
       channelz_node_(CreateChannelzNode(args)),
-      server_call_tracer_factory_(ServerCallTracerFactory::Get(args)) {}
+      server_call_tracer_factory_(ServerCallTracerFactory::Get(args)),
+      max_time_in_pending_queue_(Duration::Seconds(
+          channel_args_
+              .GetInt(GRPC_ARG_SERVER_MAX_UNREQUESTED_TIME_IN_SERVER_SECONDS)
+              .value_or(30))) {}
 
 Server::~Server() {
   // Remove the cq pollsets from the config_fetcher.

src/core/lib/surface/server.h

@@ -489,7 +489,7 @@ class Server : public InternallyRefCounted<Server>,
           0,
           channel_args_.GetInt(GRPC_ARG_SERVER_MAX_PENDING_REQUESTS_HARD_LIMIT)
               .value_or(3000)))};
-  Duration max_time_in_pending_queue_{Duration::Seconds(30)};
+  const Duration max_time_in_pending_queue_;
   absl::BitGen bitgen_ ABSL_GUARDED_BY(mu_call_);
 
   std::list<ChannelData*> channels_;