Upgrade PyO3 #1216

Job	Run time
build-macos-app	10s
build mitmproxy-linux-x86_64	1m 18s
build mitmproxy-windows	4m 3s
build mitmproxy-rs (windows-x86_64)	4m 5s
build mitmproxy-linux-arm64	2m 17s
build mitmproxy-rs (linux-x86_64)	3m 32s
test (windows-latest, 1.80, --exclude mitmproxy-linux-ebpf)	2m 57s
build mitmproxy-rs (linux-arm64)	2m 18s
test (macos-latest, 1.80, --exclude mitmproxy-linux-ebpf)	45s
build mitmproxy-rs (macos-universal)	2m 29s
test (ubuntu-22.04, 1.80, --exclude mitmproxy-linux-ebpf)	2m 6s
test (ubuntu-latest, stable, --exclude mitmproxy-linux-ebpf)	1m 12s
test (ubuntu-latest, nightly, --package mitmproxy-linux-ebpf)	28s
build mitmproxy-macos	32s
test-linux-wheel-sdist	1m 59s
check / check	3s
deploy	0s
	30m 14s

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